When I was a little girl I used to sit on the living room floor, with the sun shining in through the windows, and listen to my mom’s records (mostly Neil Diamond and John Denver). I’d close my eyes and pretend the love songs were written for me. I’d even put my name in the song when I was […]
In today’s You & Me on Love I answer the question, “What does real love look like? And how do you know?” In my opinion there’s no way to quantify real love. It’s a unique experience for each person. I can, however, share with you what it felt like for me when I fell in […]
I did something last Saturday night that I was really afraid to do. I slept alone under the stars in the wilderness. I love camping and being outside but when the invitation came to do this vision quest it really scared me… and so I knew I had to do it. As we were heading […]
Tomorrow is my 45th birthday. When I was younger I would throw myself big parties and stretch my birthday out for as long as possible – usually the entire month of January if I could manage it. I am an Aquarian with a Leo rising after all… But for the past several years I’ve spent […]
We all have the “public story” and then we have the REAL story, right? The part that feels comfortable to share with strangers and the story that you tell only to your closest girlfriends. Like the public story that says, “Yes, I’m divorced” and the private story that says “He cheated on me with my […]
Fear is a controlling S.O.B. don’t you think? It sneaks up on you and grabs you and all of a sudden you’re consumed. Consumed with thoughts and worries running through your head. What if I get married too late to have children? What if the man I love falls for another woman? What if I […]
Radiant and Raw? No this is not a new diet. Or maybe it is… What if feeling your rawness is a key ingredient to being radiant? And what if being radiant is a key ingredient in attracting that partner who will meet you in your soul? After getting settled here in Bali with everything it’s […]
This is an excerpt from some writing I did when I first arrived in Bali. I promised you awhile ago to continue with the conversation of masculine and feminine. And writing about and from the feminine includes vulnerability. So I’m putting my money where my mouth is and sharing feminine vulnerability. Watching my heart beat […]
I have been asked this question quite a lot this past week. Last weekend I led The Attract Your Soulmate Weekend at an incredible retreat center in the mountains of Santa Barbara. How did it go? For me, it felt like a huge exhale, like coming home. Sitting in a circle of women in a […]
People often assume when they meet my husband Craig that I have always had “great” relationships. It’s actually far from true (apologies to any of my exes reading this). I spent almost all of my time from age 15 to 32 in relationships, but none them were great, in fact the long term ones were […]
