After the last You & Me on Love on “What to do when he pulls away?”, I decided to share a little more on this topic. In addition to spending more time with you and letting go of the ‘neediness’ that sometimes comes up when he pulls away, it’s important to energetically separate as well. […]
A few months ago I was in my favorite hang out in Ojai, the Farmer and the Cook, and a radiant young woman came up and introduced herself to me. She said she had taken Soulmate School and that she was now in the most amazing relationship. She’d been worried that because she was a […]
I’ve got another love story to share with you today. Michelle is a young professional who lives in Seattle and she sent me this email a few weeks ago about how she found love: “I just wanted to write and thank you for sharing Soulmate School. I took your course at the end of last […]
What to do when he needs space… Today’s You and Me on Love Question comes from Omaha, Nebraska. It’s key when building a relationship. “What do I do when he pulls away?” First off, let’s start with what NOT to do. It’s really important not to get clingy or needy. This will push him further […]
Ever feel like you are in masculine ‘get it done’ energy all of the time? Like the to do list in your head never ends? Our culture is so caught up in keeping our minds busy. Always having something to do and think about. And yet if you want to connect with your feminine wisdom […]
I did something last Saturday night that I was really afraid to do. I slept alone under the stars in the wilderness. I love camping and being outside but when the invitation came to do this vision quest it really scared me… and so I knew I had to do it. As we were heading […]
Tomorrow is my 45th birthday. When I was younger I would throw myself big parties and stretch my birthday out for as long as possible – usually the entire month of January if I could manage it. I am an Aquarian with a Leo rising after all… But for the past several years I’ve spent […]
Just heard from Robin that they got engaged! She’s moved to Georgia to be with Phil and they are getting married in July. It’s a great story about finding love. What I love about Robin’s story is that she took time off from dating the wrong guys so she could really get to know herself […]
We are officially in holiday time, the time of year to be grateful. In the U.S. this week, we sit at tables full of food and share what we’re thankful for. And yet I’ve never heard any woman give thanks for her hips. Or her thighs. Or her butt. Now it may not be the […]
When you’re searching for love and haven’t found it yet, the inner critic can get really loud. It’s that voice inside your head that loves to tell you how you’re screwing up. How you’re not pretty enough, smart enough, thin enough… all the things that keep you feeling small and insecure. To make matters worse, when that voice takes control, it often […]