Author Archives: Liesel


How to find love again

Written by liesel on October 15, 2014

When I was 29, I was sure I would never find love again. The man I thought was my soulmate, the one who I was planning on spending the rest of my life with, had just walked out the door. And there I was sitting alone in a hotel room in Los Angeles, crying so […]


Why you can’t find love

Written by liesel on October 9, 2014

Do you ever feel like no matter what you do, you can’t find love? Like you are literally repelling men? Or at least the ones that you want to attract? While the ones who are showing up don’t interest you at all? This is a more common pattern than you’d think and I share one reason […]


What does real love look like?

Written by liesel on August 13, 2014

In today’s You & Me on Love I answer the question, “What does real love look like? And how do you know?” In my opinion there’s no way to quantify real love. It’s a unique experience for each person. I can, however, share with you what it felt like for me when I fell in […]


How to love your body

Written by liesel on June 20, 2014

If you’re like most women you could use some tips on how to love your body more. In fact one study showed that 80% of all American women are dissatisfied with their appearance. 80% of women don’t like their body! And yet when I talk to men about women one of the things they share […]


A simple tool to be more magnetic to a man

Written by liesel on May 22, 2014

After the last You & Me on Love on “What to do when he pulls away?”, I decided to share a little more on this topic. In addition to spending more time with you and letting go of the ‘neediness’ that sometimes comes up when he pulls away, it’s important to energetically separate as well. […]


When he needs space…

Written by liesel on April 30, 2014

What to do when he needs space… Today’s You and Me on Love Question comes from Omaha, Nebraska. It’s key when building a relationship. “What do I do when he pulls away?” First off, let’s start with what NOT to do. It’s really important not to get clingy or needy. This will push him further […]


Can you have more than one soulmate?

Written by liesel on July 18, 2013

This question for You and Me on Love comes from Pocatello, Idaho. The question is: “can you have more than one soulmate?”. My answer is controversial in the love world. Many people believe that there is only one love for you out there and that you can’t have more than one soulmate. So if he’s come […]


How to get more from a man

Written by liesel on July 7, 2013

Do you often wonder how to get more from a man? This question for You and Me on Love comes from Dubai. “How do I get a man to invest more in a relationship?”   When you find yourself in a situation where you feel like we are not getting enough from the man you’re dating, it […]


Can an old lover come back into your life as a new lover?

Written by liesel on June 25, 2013

This question for You and Me on Love comes from Bangladesh. Can an old lover come back in? Is it healthy? Can it work? I’ll tell  you how…   How about you? Have you had an old lover come back into your life? Has it been healthy for you? Do you think it’s possible? Please […]


Perfect Life = Perfect Guy?

Written by liesel on May 10, 2013

I’ve started a new video series called You & Me on Love. I’ve received a ton of your burning questions on love and relationships and now I’m going to answer them for you! This first question comes from Holyoke, Massachusetts. “Does everything in my life have to be perfect before I can meet the perfect […]


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